It’s graduation season. As high school students everywhere are celebrating their new found independence, parents of these students are worrying whether or not their graduates know enough to survive college.
In a perfect world, parents teach their students what they need to know about finances over the course of eighteen years. However, if you’re just now realizing that your soon-to-be college student doesn’t have the financial know-ho to get by on his own, there’s hope.
Make the most of the summer to teach your child what she needs to know before heading off into the real world. That said, what does she need to know?

Maybe you don’t have time to teach your child the detailed ins and outs of budgeting. If you drill this one idea into your child’s head, though, he will be OK. That idea is spend less than you earn. This simple idea means your student needs to know two things.
As a college student, your child may not have a regular income. Whether he has a job with a weekly paycheck, scholarships that are paid out quarterly, or a stipend from mom and dad that he receives monthly, your student needs to know his income.
Then he needs to track his expenses, making sure they do not exceed his income. Teach him to save a little bit for emergencies. Be prepared for a rough start and some mistakes, but if your college student learns this one lesson, he will be way ahead of many college graduates!
Let’s face is. Checks are quickly becoming outdated. With the advent of debit cards and electronic transactions, it’s rare that one needs to write a check anymore. However, there are still a few occasions when checks are the only way to go.
Make sure your college student has access to a checkbook through his bank account and knows how to write a check. Just as important, make sure he knows to record the check and balance the checkbook, so he’s not surprised when a forgotten check clears!
In addition, your student should know how to void a check, as he may need to present a voided check to his employer for direct deposit.
There are many fabulous programs on the market to help manage a budget and bank account. If you have time over the summer to teach your college student how to master one of these programs, great! But at the very minimum, your student should know how to reconcile his bank account, use online banking to check up on pending and cleared transactions, and what to do if there is a mistake on his bank statement.
Also educate your student on the different fees banks charge. You don’t want your college student to overdraft his account, because he didn’t calculate ATM fees correctly!
And most importantly, teach him that if he has a question about his bank account, it’s OK to call you or the bank for help. We all need a little guidance sometimes.
If there’s one thing that gets college students in trouble, it’s the improper use of credit. Whether the student takes out too many student loans or racks up a credit card balance, graduating from college deep in debt can have a negative impact on a young adult for years to come.
Parents, if you teach your children one thing in the summer before college (or preferably sooner), teach your children to respect credit.
Just because your daughter’s favorite store offers 15% off that day’s purchase for opening a credit card doesn’t mean it’s a good idea. Explain that taking on debt and paying it back over the long term will eventually cost more than the 15% she saved in one day. One lesson I didn’t understand before college was that just because I could afford the monthly credit card payment didn’t mean I could afford the purchase. Make sure your student understands this.
Teach your child to use a credit card responsibly, if at all. Teach her to pay off the balance every month and that if she can’t pay off the balance one month, she needs to stop using the card. The momentary pain of being broke and passing up a purchase is a lot better than the long term pain of paying off a purchase you made five years ago at twice the price.
College is a time of learning to be an adult. As a parent, you can expect your young adults to make plenty of mistakes, even with good preparation. If you take time to prepare your student in these four areas, though, chances are that your child’s mistakes will be minor, with only short term repercussions.
Am I missing anything? At a minimum, what do you think young adults should know about finances before heading off to college?
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Good Advice. We accidently taught our son about using a credit card without really trying. I was a good accident. There needs to be a mandatory class for all high school seniors on how to manage a bank account and a credit card.
First time here on this website. I whole-heartedly agree that today’s youth could use some basic financial education. Little do they know that they could reach to be a millionaire if they simply start to save early. I can give away upto 2 copies of my Kindle e-book ($0.99) “My 1st Million At 33 – YES, you can do it too! (Part I)” for any two of your blog readers who emails me in the next two weeks. They do need to state that they’re coming from beingfrugal.net.
My daughter is off to college in August. She’s had 2 part time jobs the past 2 years and has been great about managing her money. She plans to work as much as possible this summer and bank most of her paychecks before fall classes begin. She has a checking account with a debit card and gets her balance emailed to her everyday. Last week we went to college orientation and I was a bit surprised to see bank representatives there peddling credit cards to the incoming freshman. We both agreed that she did not need one and if any emergencies came up mom and dad could easily transfer cash to her checking account to help out. I know she’ll need to start establishing credit soon but getting a credit card now, with no income, while adjusting to college life, just didn’t seem like a smart thing to do. I think debit cards are the way to go for teens because they learn that they can only spend what’s in their account and they won’t have to face a credit card bill the following month.
Ugh. Don’t get me started on those credit card companies. My first experience with debt was a credit card I obtained my first week on campus. I had a friend in college who ran up $6000 right away on one of those cards.
College bound students definitely need to know how and when to use a credit card (or better yet…how to avoid credit) before setting foot on campus!
I think responsible credit use should be taught, rather than credit avoidance. If anything, a credit card is a useful tool to learn how debt works. Eventually someone with a credit card is going to want to buy a car or house and need to understand what they’re paying. I got my first CC the day I turned 18, now after several years I’ve still never paid a cent of interest.
$6000?!?! Yikes! Wow, I think my limit on my first card was only $1000, back in the 80′s that was big bucks! Lol!
Great advice and timely! Next week for our weekly family home evening, we are looking at personal finance and how the family can save money and where our money is going. Along with that, our oldest is heading off to college in the fall.
Thanks for the great advice!